Once upon a time I lived in a house on a street in Norwich, CT.
I moved into that house when I married Brian.
It was my first home in a marriage, I had always lived in rentals in my previous marriage.
This house was a happy place.
We loved our neighbors, The Sheehan's, and they loved us right back, in fact when we moved they did everything in their power to try and get us to stay.
When Brian passed away I wondered how I would be able to stay in this home,
our family home.
When it became apparent that I could not stay in the home, I listed it on the market at what we thought was a fair price, $199,900. Months later when we had no action, we dropped the price to $179,900. Still no buyers, so we dropped it again, this time to a price very close to what Brian owed on the mortgage, $159,000. Nothing and more nothing.
It became clear as the months went on that I would need to leave the home, so after weighing the pros and cons I decided to pack it up, clean it out, throw away years of treasures and move to California. Start over, start fresh and see what life had to offer. The attorney said, stop paying the mortgage, we'll get a deed in lieu of foreclosure, no penalties for me, I never owned it.
Done and done, probate approved my handing it back to the bank and that was it. Brian's house, our home was no longer mine. The bank went in and fixed it up a bit, and upon my snooping on Zillow the house is finally pending sale, it's going for even less then I was asking.
New paint, sanded floors, and even new rugs.
More than I could afford to do for it.
The new family will fall in love with it I hope.
They will make it their home, and like Brian be proud to own it.
They will only know how much he loved his home when they meet Mark and Beth, who I know will surely pass on the stories we filled it with.
They will cook in my kitchen, and perhaps they will hear echoes of me saying how much I hated the ugly brown tile walls, and how I thought it was too small and old fashioned, but will they know how many delicious meals I turned out there. I hope so.
It cleaned up nice, but gosh, I hope the new owners eventually strip that tile off the walls and give it a fresh new look. I still think that tile is ugly.
Morgan loved her bedroom, she loved the fan and new light fixture we had put in for her, and she loved that her room looked out on the street. It was her quiet place. She cried when we left that room for the last time (shh, don't tell her but I cried too). I'm hoping she'll always remember the good memories there, I know though that she will never forget the ghosts, oh yes, our home was haunted.
My bedroom, well it never looked like this when I lived there. A dusky blue rug, with blue trim around the doors and windows. It was large and comfortable, but I always wished it had been in the front of the house and not the back.
I remember when I moved in thinking it was odd that there was a small room off the bedroom with my closet. I found out quickly it was meant to be a baby nursery. We left the cow border up the whole 12 years, it always made me smile.
The spare room, next door to Morgans bedroom, was always called the bunny room.
It had a bunny rabbit border up when I moved in. The walls were green and it felt meant for a small child. Morgan loved the room, and when we had "live in" guests like Joe or my mom when she came to visit, they always used this room. I'll never forget the day Brian fell through the attic eaves into the ceiling of this room, he wasn't hurt, so we had the hole patched and then had a great story to tell to guests.
The house had a full walk up attic, two rooms, one originally a bedroom though not used as such while we lived there and one for storage. I like what the bank did with it ... rugs and new walls sure make it seem more comfortable.
Finally, the back enclosed patio. Beautiful blue stones and a working fireplace. I spent many a day back there reading and we had many bbq's there as well.
For as much as I complained that I wanted to sell this home and move to a warmer, smaller place, I have many good memories there as well.
It was my home,
It was Brian's home
and
It was Morgan's home.
I hope and pray a good family will buy it and build wonderful memories there too.
The following pictures were taken in front of our home after we shut the front door and locked it behind us never to enter again. Morgan put on a brave face but there were plenty of tears shed, because no matter how many times you complain about a place, you cannot erase the good times you had there. May they always be memories we carry within our hearts.
The following pictures were taken in front of our home after we shut the front door and locked it behind us never to enter again. Morgan put on a brave face but there were plenty of tears shed, because no matter how many times you complain about a place, you cannot erase the good times you had there. May they always be memories we carry within our hearts.
